The people a room
wants more of.
The CitySet Circle is our free, invite-only community. There's no form and no fee. At every evening, a few guests stand out for the right reasons, and those are the people we ask to stay close.
Noticed, not nominated.
Invitations come from what our hosts, and the guests sitting across from you, see on the night. It isn't about looks, a job title or a type. It's about the kind of person others enjoy being around.
You put people at ease
The guest who makes a nervous stranger relax within a minute.
You listen well
Curious about the person in front of you, not just waiting for your turn to talk.
You leave people smiling
The one people remember, and mention, long after the evening ends.
Simply put: be lovely, and get remembered.
Your city,
opened up.
Invitations are never automatic, but Circle members are always the first guests we think of, here and across the Constellation.
First on the guest list
When we're filling an evening, Circle members are the first people we invite back, often as our guests.
Across the Constellation
When an evening hosted by another Constellation brand needs great guests, Circle members are the first we ask.
Private and exclusive evenings
Smaller, invitation-only gatherings that never appear on a public calendar.
Considered for Luvo Matchmaking
Circle members may be considered as a match for Luvo Matchmaking's clients, at no cost. There's nothing to fill out.
One circle
leads to another.
TheCitySet is part of the Constellation, a group of in-person dating, friendship and networking brands, hosting evenings since 2007 in 50+ cities. Each brand is distinct, and its standout guests form its own circle. Together, those circles are the pool Luvo Matchmaking introduces from. Many of our evenings are shared with MyCheekyDate and Relish, so you meet people beyond your usual type.
Shine at TheCitySet
Stand out at an evening and you're invited into the CitySet Circle.
First to be invited
When invitations go out across the Constellation, Circle members are the first we ask.
Considered for Luvo
The circles of every Constellation brand together make up the pool Luvo Matchmaking introduces from.
Shine in one circle, and you become part of the Constellation.
Seven brands for dating, friendship and networking, plus Luvo Matchmaking. Meet every brand in the Constellation →
About the Circle.
Can I apply to join?
No. The Circle can't be applied for or bought. The only way in is to come to an evening and be noticed.
Does it cost anything?
No. Membership is free, and it always will be.
Does being considered for Luvo cost anything?
No. Being in the Circle is free, and so is being considered as a match through Luvo Matchmaking. One ticket can lead to the one.
Is being in the Circle the same as being a Luvo client?
No. Luvo clients are people who hire Luvo Matchmaking. Circle members are the people we know and may consider as matches for those clients, at no cost to you.
How will I know if I'm invited?
We'll reach out by email after an evening. Every invitation comes directly from us.
Do I have to do anything once I'm in?
Nothing at all. Accept the invitations that suit you and skip the ones that don't.
One ticket can lead
to the one.
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