You don't just live here.
You love it here.
TheCitySet hosts structured dating events for people who love where they live. First in line at the farmers market, a regular at the place on the corner, always the one who knows what's on this weekend. You love your neighborhood. Come meet the people who love theirs.
Local on purpose
Every evening is held at a venue the neighborhood already loves, close enough to walk home from.
A plus-one for your city
Someone for the Sunday trail, the farmers market and the new place that just opened down the street.
Hosted, never hectic
No shouting over a mic, no name tags, no bells. Just a relaxed room and good conversation.
You meet the whole room.
An evening with TheCitySet is a structured dating event: seated, host-led and unhurried. No hovering at the bar hoping someone says hello. Your host seats everyone, and the evening moves in one easy rotation, six to seven minutes with each person, until you've met the whole room.
The structure is there so you don't have to think about it. Afterward, stay for a drink; the best conversations often start once the rotation ends.
Meet the room. Match after midnight.
Pick your neighborhood
Choose your city, then the structured dating evening closest to home. Booking takes a couple of minutes, and every evening is backed by The CitySet Guarantee.
Settle in
Arrive at the listed start time and grab a drink. Your host waits until everyone is comfortable.
Meet everyone
One conversation at a time. Mark who you'd like to see again on your Smart-Card, on your phone, no app needed.
Check back after midnight
If they picked you too, it's a match. You each get a first name and an email. The rest is up to you.
The CitySet Circle
At every evening, a few people stand out for the right reasons. They put others at ease, listen well and leave people smiling. Our hosts notice, and they're invited into the Circle, our free, invite-only community.
- Invited back as our guest: no ticket to buy, no cost to you
- First to be asked when evenings across the Constellation need great guests
- Private evenings that never appear on a public calendar
- Considered as a match for Luvo Matchmaking's clients, at no cost
The mix is the point.
Many of our evenings are shared by MyCheekyDate, Relish and TheCitySet. Each brand draws a different kind of guest: people who lead with humor, career-minded professionals, and locals who love their city. Sharing one room means you meet people beyond your usual type, and that's what makes the evening worth coming to.
- MyCheekyDatePeople who lead with humor
- RelishCareer-minded professionals
- TheCitySetLocals who love their city
All three brands belong to the Constellation, a group of in-person dating, friendship and networking brands, hosting evenings since 2007 in 50+ cities. Each brand draws its own kind of guest. Meet the Constellation →
Choose your city.
Pick yours, tell us a little about yourself, and we'll send you the schedule of structured dating evenings planned there.
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